{"id":2899,"date":"2015-08-07T08:31:22","date_gmt":"2015-08-07T13:31:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/?p=2899"},"modified":"2015-08-07T08:34:36","modified_gmt":"2015-08-07T13:34:36","slug":"reflection-on-my-daughters-10th-birthday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/index.php\/2015\/08\/07\/reflection-on-my-daughters-10th-birthday\/","title":{"rendered":"Reflection on My Daughter&#8217;s 10th Birthday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_3296.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2900\" src=\"http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_3296.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3296\" width=\"480\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_3296.jpg 480w, http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_3296-150x150.jpg 150w, http:\/\/sarahdamm.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/IMG_3296-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This will be short and sweet, because we have a birthday to celebrate today! But as I greeted my daughter this morning, on this her 10th birthday, I couldn&#8217;t help but take a moment to let it soak in that 10 is a pretty big milestone in a child&#8217;s life &#8230; and in a mom&#8217;s life, too.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Be silly, be honest, be kind.&#8221; \u2014Ralph Waldo Emerson<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>That quote sums up my daughter, Lucia, perfectly. I saw it on a spiral notebook once, and I had to buy it for her. Because it was <em>so<\/em> her.<\/p>\n<p>Today she is\u00a010. She is my third child to turn 10, but I never really get used to the big deal that 10 is. She has been waiting to be &#8220;double digits&#8221; for\u00a0what seems like forever,\u00a0so it&#8217;s an exciting day! For me, the reality that she&#8217;s growing up and that she is no longer a little girl sets in ever more deeply, which is bittersweet &#8230; but mostly\u00a0sweet.<\/p>\n<p>While it may look like I am photobombing this selfie of Lucia, it really symbolizes how mothering changes as our children grow. No longer do I carry her. No longer do I always walk in front of her to pave the way. This year I realized her desire to truly be herself\u2014not her older sisters, not her friends, but herself. So, more and more, I stand closely behind her to support and encourage her, as she grows into the beautifully unique girl God has created her to be.<\/p>\n<p>Happy birthday, Lucia, my daughter who shines so brightly in my life! I love you! May you always be the silly, honest and kind person God made\u00a0you to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This will be short and sweet, because we have a birthday to celebrate today! 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